June 1, 2005
LIVING WITH DUHKHA
As mentioned in the previous essay,
happiness is a state of mind that can be experienced for relatively brief
moments but not retained for any length of time. Philosophers and theologians
have grappled with this fact of life throughout recorded history and numerous
reasons have been adduced. For the ancient Persians it was simple because they
believed in a dualism of the forces of light versus those of darkness where
sometimes one side and then the other would win. This cosmic battle involves
all of nature and includes the human race.
The situation became more complex
when Jewish monotheism rejected the idea of dualism and instead postulated one
Almighty and benevolent God. This did not change the facts of life and misfortunes
persisted. The Jewish answer to the vicissitudes of life was the concept of
sin. The person had disobeyed the will of God and needed to be punished. This
notion also had its merits but fell short of the mark because disease and other
tragedies befall even saints. The attempt of Jewish theologians to address this
problem is the well known Book of Job. When Job questioned why the Lord was
piling more and more miseries upon him the answer he got was not particularly
satisfactory. To put it simply, “Who are you to question Me?” may well reflect
the state of our insignificance in the context of the cosmos but it is of no
major help to a person in distress. But all was not lost for Job because the
Lord did provide a happy ending of sorts when Job got more than all of his previous
property back including brand new sons and daughters. A more modern answer to
Job’s question was provided by the well known author Rabbi Kushner, who had
also been confronted with a personal tragedy of major proportions. It is
contained in his little book “When Bad Things Happen to Good People.” Since the
Lord’s answer to Job did not address Dr. Kushner’s justified anguish he fell
back on the ancient Greek notion of Moros
(fate or destiny) against which even Zeus was helpless. This idea may also have
its merits but it does conflict with that of an Almighty God. Since it is
important, however, to end one’s contemplations on the problems of mankind on an
optimistic note Dr. Kushner assured us that the Lord will never put more
burdens on us then we can carry.
St. Paul
solved the problem by expanding the concept of sin to include newborn babies.
According to this opinion all of us come into this world tainted by the
disobedience of Adam who brought death into this world. By firmly believing in
Jesus who by his death on the cross and subsequent resurrection has atoned for
all past, present and future sins we overcome death and enter into an eternal
life of the blessed. The “original sin” concept was subsequently elaborated on by
Christian theologians and as a genetic defect it had to be expunged by
baptizing the newborn. Unfortunately baptism early or later in life did not
lead to prolonged states of happiness by the believers. The imminent arrival of
the Kingdom of God
announced by John the Baptist, Jesus, St. Paul
and others did not materialize either. On the contrary the Jews lost whatever
meager independence they had in Jerusalem
and Judea for nearly two millennia. Christians, ignoring
the teachings of Jesus, delighted in that historical fact and regarded it as
the just punishment of the nation by God for having been stubborn and denying
that Jesus had been the promised Messiah. Since this denial persists to this
day and both can’t be right, conflicts between the two religious systems of thought
are unavoidable.
Christianity fared better as a
religion but only by initially accommodating itself to the secular power
structure and later on developing its own. The persistence of evil even in
nominally Christian realms did require further explanations so the ancient
Persian Ahriman as adversary of the god of light was
resurrected under the Greek name of Satan. His main reason for existence is to
torment the human race and especially the believers when they stray from the
straight and narrow. The name and concept were taken over by the Muslims where
he is referred to as Shaitan.
In the late Middle Ages and the Renaissance Satan was a very popular excuse
when bad things happened and Luther, especially, was tormented by him
throughout his life. Satan’s wiles, which included the Church of Rome, and
subsequently the Jews when they failed to listen to him just as they had to St.
Paul, had to be resisted. These efforts made him quite pugnacious but did
little to promote personal happiness. Jesus’ admonition, “resist not evil” had
found no echo in his soul. Since this particular commandment goes directly
against the very fiber of humanity, which demands retribution for genuine or
perceived misfortunes, it continues to be ignored in the private as well as political
arena to the detriment of all of us.
With the so-called period of
Enlightenment, “secularism” arose. The emergence of empirical science first did
away with the “ghosties and ghoulies” which had tormented our ancestors, and
then their boss the devil. In as much as further scientific endeavors showed
that some of the teachings of the Bible were in conflict with emerging facts,
the role of God came into question. But when you do away with God you not only
remove sin but also the moral conscience that has been built up around it as
the foundation and preservation of Western civilization. For “God given” laws “man
made” ones were substituted. This process had two disadvantages. One was that
it created armies of lawyers whose main function is to find ways to circumvent
these laws, while new ones are created on a daily basis. The other is that the
absence of a helping or punishing hand from above has left a vacuum in the
human mind. I use the word mind instead of soul because when you do away with
the concept of God that of the immortal soul also tends to disappear. By the “secularists”
this vacuum is now either ignored or filled by the restless “pursuit of
happiness” in the material or emotional sphere. This has in turn created rising
crime, the drug culture and sexual promiscuity with its attendant dangers to
the health of the individual as well as its ill effects on society at large.
The so-called “culture war” in the U.S. is the attempt to turn the clock of
time back to an era where God reigned supreme and His laws were supposedly
obeyed. Since one cannot uninvent science, and its most destructive outgrowth
the bomb, these efforts will prove futile and mankind is likely to stumble from
one disaster to the next always blaming someone else for misfortunes that are
bound to occur.
The Western outlook on life is
based on thoughts that were largely hatched in the countries bordering on the Mediterranean.
The ancient Indians who lived in the foothills of the Himalayans developed
different ideas about the origin of the vicissitudes of life. Although the
Hindus had a vast pantheon of gods, some good and others bad, they also
produced the Upanishads as a basis for moral living. These documents are in
some ways opposite in spirit to the Old Testament. While Moses’ laws were
intended to create a nation that would conquer territory and amass material
fortunes the Indian sages concentrated on the inner life of human beings and
the question how harmony can be achieved within a given person. The nation was
of no concern. It would take are of itself if all the individuals that make up
the nation would behave according to the precepts laid down.
As in all societies eventually the
will to power became dominant in some people and so did the critical faculty which
gave rise to a splintering of the religion into numerous sects. Conflicts between the two ruling classes the
Brahmins - guardians of the faith - and the Kshatyras
– the military, secular arm of government – became inevitable and the misery of
the common people persisted. At some point between the 6th and 5th
century BC a spiritual revolution took place under the leadership of Siddhartha
Gautama who became known to the world as the Buddha – the Enlightened One. This
is another interesting confluence of terms. In post-Renaissance Europe
the “philosophes” found the concept
of God unappealing and substituted science under a term that had been coined
two thousand years earlier by a different civilization of which they did not as
yet have solid notions. Siddhartha had also thought deeply about the reasons
why human beings are subject to suffering and had found that putting the blame
on the gods was not an adequate way to reduce the problems that living entails.
All the human being can do with gods, or God as the case may be, is to ask for
forgiveness and beg for help which may or may not be granted. Although he did
not put it in these words the concept as expressed in the German language, “Selbst ist der Mann!” arose. The
Brahmins had argued endlessly about the “Self” what it is and what it is not but
the consensus was that it was Brahma, the ultimate reality and therefore God, as
well as its extension in every human soul. Siddhartha who had been endowed with
a thoroughly practical mind abhorred religious speculations and tried living by
the precepts of the various sects which were then prevalent in India.
None of these efforts led to inner peace and the solution to the question why
there is so much suffering in this world. At last the answer came with utmost
simplicity which is always a hallmark of truth. Suffering is a fact of human
existence, it has a cause and when the cause has been eliminated suffering will
cease. The way to make suffering disappear is outlined in the Eightfold Noble Path.
So far so good; but when we read
that the cause of suffering is desire, it does become more complicated. The
human being constantly wants something and the mind flits about like a monkey,
desiring now this and immediately thereafter that and if the end of suffering
can only be achieved by giving up
everything, including the needs of one’s body, the Western mind has difficulty
accepting a philosophy of this type. The rewards of a Nirvana, which when
translated literally simply means extinction, are also not particularly
appealing.
As an educated European I had a
nodding acquaintance with Buddhism but as the lines above indicate it was
another “so what” experience until I was invited by Japanese colleagues to go
on a lecture tour about various aspects of epilepsy. I was treated royally by
my hosts and although the schedule was exacting I shall always be grateful for
the courtesies that were extended to me. The tour also took me to Nara
the very first capital of Japan
and in the evening after dinner I found in the drawer of the nightstand a book
“The Teachings of Buddha.” It had been
placed there by the Buddhist Promotion Society of Japan just as the Gideons
place Bibles into hotel rooms and Mr. Marriott the Book of Mormon in some of
his hotels. When I began reading the book and found the theory of the supremacy
of the mind over everything else, the neurologist perked up and decided that I
needed to study this book in detail. I was tempted to keep it but then I
thought, “No, you don’t start your acquaintance with Buddha by stealing” and
reluctantly put it back in the drawer before going to sleep. The next morning
on the way to breakfast I passed the gift shop and there was the book on
display for purchase. I gladly paid the nominal price and it has become a
valuable companion on the trip through life from then on.
On that particular day in Nara
there was no lecture scheduled and my local hosts, including one of my former
students and the Professor of Neurology with his charming wife, took me to the Deer
Park which houses one of the oldest Todaiji temples in
Japan and has
fortunately survived the ravages of WWII. Inside was a colossal bronze statue
of a seated Buddha who stared serenely at the crowd. I was told that it was
cast around the 8th century is 53 feet high and weighs 500 tons. The
left hand is depicted with the palm up and I was informed that this expresses
his infinite compassion, although an open palm tends to have another
connotation in the West. Since Siddhartha
had to beg for his food both ideas are probably right because the giver
receives a blessing in return. The right hand is raised in the manner of a stop
sign and signifies that it wards off evil.
While I took all this in I also saw
a huge wooden post, somewhat off to the left side of the statue, which extended
up to the ceiling of the building. It had a relatively small hole in the bottom
and little Japanese kids had a great deal of fun crawling through it. It was
explained to me that the hole is the size of the Buddha’s nostril and whoever
gets through it is saved. But it wasn’t only children that availed themselves
of this opportunity adults participated likewise and my hosts, concerned about
my spiritual well being urged me to try. Obviously I resisted because there was
no way a nearly 6 foot frame of 170 pounds would fit through that narrow
tunnel. But they insisted and since I didn’t want to disappoint them I took my
jacket off and to the great delight of the on looking crowd laid down on one
side with an outstretched arm to demonstrate that this simply wouldn’t work
because I was stuck. Never underestimate Japanese perseverance. While I was
trying to shove myself through and get a hold of something in that tunnel with
my fingers, eager little Japanese pushed at my feet with all their might. The
moment my outstretched hand appeared on the other end another group of
onlookers grabbed it and with pushing and pulling I emerged eventually to
joyous laughter and congratulations, although the work had been theirs rather
than just mine. It was a demonstration of Buddhism in action, the hallmark of
which is compassion.
I can’t say that there was some
kind of spiritual revelation associated with that scene but I was glad to have
provided my friends with some moments of happiness and laughter. Nevertheless,
a seed was put into the ground on that day and I decided to learn more about
Buddhism and Siddhartha, its founder. The words “suffering” and “desire” had
turned me off when I first read about Buddhism but when I learned that the word
which is translated as “suffering” is “duhkha”
in Sanskrit the pieces of the puzzle began to fall into place. Although duhkha does mean suffering it has
considerably wider connotations and in the Dalai Lama’s little book, “The Opening
of the Wisdom Eye” these are explained in an endnote. To quote from the book:
“DUHKHA- a very
important term. Often rendered as ‘suffering,’ it is then inadequate and
we [the translators of the book] have preferred either the cumbersome but more
accurate ‘unsatisfactoriness’ or else to leave the word untranslated. Duhkha
may be physical (pain) or mental (anguish), it refers to the facts of ‘birth,
old age, disease and death,’ to the common enough ‘grief, lamentation, pain,
anguish and despair,’ to being ‘conjoined with what one does not like’ and ‘being
separated from what one likes, not to getting what one wants.’ The very
components of our personality are, because we grasp at them (as ‘I’, as
‘mine’), bound up with Duhkha. ‘Duhkha should be understood’ within one’s ‘own’
mind and body and when it is understood one will know true happiness. Phrases
in parentheses in these notes are quoting the words of the Lord Buddha.”
In view of this expanded meaning of
the term I shall leave it untranslated in the future. We can now see that duhkha instead of being due to external
events is part of our beings and there is no escaping from this companion. When the roots of the Sanskrit word are
explored one finds that it is a composite of “dur” which means “bad” and “kha,”
which means “state;” ergo a bad state. When I read this another thought from
Egyptian mythology immediately came to mind. It was assumed that every person
consisted of two elements: one was the visible body and its actions, the other
his “Ka.” This twin was born with
him, acted as his invisible “Doppelgaenger”
and guardian angel. At death it preceded the person to the Western realm. If we
were to render this idea into a modern context we might regard the Ka as a series of computer files which
are created by our actions (The Hindu-Buddhist Karma) and which are delivered
at death to some central registry which may or may not render a judgment. Thereafter
the function of the Ka was to inhabit
the statue of the deceased in his mortuary temple, thereby guaranteeing the
continuation of life. The soul of the person was the Ba and depicted as a little bird that was released from its earthly
bounds. I have often wondered whether the ancient most holy Muslim shrine, the
black stone cube in Mecca the Ka’ba, has any connection to these Egyptian
ideas.
But leaving these theoretical
speculations aside the concept of duhkha can have considerable implications for
daily living. First of all we will come to “expect the unexpected” not out of
pessimism but simply as a fact of life that will be with us in some form or
other as long we are on this planet. When it comes as minor annoyances we can
shrug it off by saying “duhkha” to ourselves and in case of major disasters we
will recognize our obligation to deal with the consequences in a constructive
manner. The favorite American “blame game,” where everything bad that happens
is automatically somebody else’s fault, stops when duhkha is incorporated into
one’s daily life. The aggrieved person knows that loss is part of life, can
never be fully restituted, and as the saying goes “it’s time to move on.” If
more people were to adopt this attitude the numerous lawyers who at this time
engage in litigations of genuine or assumed grievances would have to find
themselves another profession.
This brings me to the second word I
had problems with, “desire.” What is meant is not the wish for ordinary aspects
of daily living, but craving and clinging. It is the mentality of “I have to
have” regardless of object. When this attitude is abandoned mental freedom is
achievable even under adverse circumstances. The advantage of practicing Siddhartha’s
insight of the four noble truths and the eightfold noble path is that it does
not require a change of one’s religion. They can be lived by a Jew, Muslim or
Christian just as much as by an agnostic or atheist. There are no “thou shalts” and there is no prerequisite for belief in a
supernatural force that dispenses good or evil.
All that is required is the will to tame the vagaries of one’s mind. The
practice does not come easy, however, it needs considerable mental effort and
there is no instant Zen. On the other hand it can round out our lives in the
West. We tend to be “this world oriented” and ignore what one could call “the
eyes closed state” where our fears, hopes and aspirations reside. If we are
equally comfortable within ourselves when we are not engaged in frantic
activities chasing after the “American dream” of material well being then our
conduct in the eyes open state including our scientific pursuits will be in
harmony and that ought to be a worthy goal.
The philosophical system called Buddhism
has grown quite complex over the centuries. But this is equally true of what
one may call the Christology which has arisen over the person of Jesus. Yet
when one compares the teachings of Siddhartha and Jesus it is quite apparent
that considerable parallels exist, although they did start from different
premises, which were conditioned by the milieu they had grown up in.
Nevertheless the goal was the same, namely to free the individual from what was
called mental stains by Siddhartha and sin by Jesus. It is also interesting to
note, that the concept of duhkha as an aspect we are born with has its
counterpart in the original sin. The fundamental difference between these two
world views is, however, that the Christian religion sees the human being as a
tainted fallen creature which has to be redeemed by faith and certain rituals. For
the Buddhist the human being is the most desirable state to be born into
because only the human brain can apprehend the infinite and strive for the full
development of one’s mind which in turn leads to an amelioration of suffering
for others.
This point needs to be emphasized
because there exists even in learned Christian circles some misunderstanding about
what the Buddha tried to accomplish. Pope Benedict XVI,
was reported to have referred to Buddhism as “auto-eroticism,” while he was
still Cardinal Ratzinger and in charge of defending Catholic dogma. If this
report is correct nothing could be further from the truth. Although the
Buddhist does spend a great deal of time in meditation this is not solipsism
for personal gratification. Auto-eroticism implies love of self but this is
precisely the opposite of what the Buddha taught. In Buddhism there is no Self.
There are only constantly changing aggregates, which include the human body and
mind, and it is therefore foolish to cling to a notion of self. Meditation is
performed for the sole purpose of gaining mastery over one’s mind in order to
better understand oneself and thereby others. This in turn enables the
practitioner to provide genuine help to all. This is, by the way, also the basis for the
Greek admonition on the temple in Delphi, “Know
Thyself.” The Christian and Jewish religions demand that “Thou shalt love the
Lord thy God and thy neighbor as thyself.” But love cannot be commanded; it is
spontaneous emotion and when absent the commandment becomes either a duty or
worse, hypocrisy. The Buddhist knows this. He is not ordered, “thou shalt have
compassion” but the emotion arises as a direct consequence of his mental
training and is therefore genuine.
Let us consider now how our world
would be different if the principle of duhkha and its causes had been
incorporated into the lives of our political leadership. Apart from clinging,
the root causes are: greed, ignorance and delusion. Let us be honest with
ourselves. What was the invasion of Iraq
really all about? Saddam sat on about half the world’s supply of oil and we
wanted it. That was greed because other arrangements for obtaining some of his oil
could have been made. The idea that we would be welcomed as liberators was
based on ignorance because our neocons who also pushed for the invasion, for
reasons of their own, did not have the
faintest inkling how much dislike the U.S. government has earned in the Arab
world during the past decades. There were two reasons for the hatred of America
among fundamentalists. One was the establishment of military bases in Saudi
Arabia, the Muslim Holy Land, which was seen
as a precursor to a penetration of Muslim society with the moral decay as
presented in our movies and TV shows. The other was our constant unilateral
support of the policies of the state of Israel.
The fact that we vetoed every single UN Security Council resolution that would
have forced the Israeli government to adhere to international legal standards was
ignored here but not by the Arabs who see our government simply as an extension
of the one that sits in Jerusalem.
But in spite of this ignorance of Muslim sensibilities our Iraq
policy was pursued with a fervor that can only be called delusional as
subsequent events have proven. There is enough duhkha in this world due to
natural causes we don’t have to add man made ones.
While personal duhkha resulting
from illness, accident or loss of life and property is serious enough, that
produced by politicians is immense. This is the reason why governments need to
be held accountable. Simply voting the ruling circles out of office is not
enough. Accountability should be ongoing while they are in charge of the
government. Only under those circumstances can the average person say that we
live in freedom and democracy. We would then no longer need to export it by
force for “our security” because others will be happy to emulate it on their
own turf and under their own cultural values. We also need to look at the
forces that control our economy and popular culture. They are based on the
precise opposite of the teachings of Buddha. Instead of limiting desires we are
egged on to want more and more in the material and sexual fields. That this
does not promote happiness but merely increases duhkha, because every
unfulfilled wish will create unhappiness in the person, has yet to be learned.
But since this is the death knell for capitalistic society, which is ultimately
based on greed, this learning experience will be a long and arduous process.
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